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Post by Tassy on Sat Apr 11, 2009 5:55 am

i needd sum adviceee ppl Neutral
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Re: what wud yooh do if ur parentz wanted yooh to geh married in earlie tym???

Post by mini on Sat Apr 11, 2009 6:45 am

It's difficult to give advice because it's all about your parents decision not your boyfriends. confused2

If you're single then there is no problem to say "KooBull" a bit early. lero
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Post by Tassy on Sat Apr 11, 2009 6:49 am

loooool sayin khobul is a taugh decision to makee....its too ealii mn to geh married arrrrghhhh. lol btw wt do u mean they cum with an exprie date huh lol
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Post by Naz on Sun Apr 12, 2009 5:32 am

I go thru dis lyk everyday! truss me..im feelin u bbe! every1 sayz ima get married well early..n 2 sum freshy aswell..lol sos

i dnt cre wah dey say eny more..every1z alwayz plannin my wedding..even ma bro..n all dis shit on howz hes gna b hiring carz n ma mates n cuzn hav alredy decided on colour codes!!! lol n da fing is im only turning 16 lyk next week!

ma mates gettin married next month n shes 16 lol so its givin ma mum ber ideas..
da best fing to do is to use studying or workin as a excuse! x

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Post by OlderStrongerFaster on Sun Apr 12, 2009 10:43 am

16??? omdaiiiiz.......n herez me finkiin 19 woz early!!! erm
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Post by OlderStrongerFaster on Sun Apr 12, 2009 10:44 am

i reeeli dont know wot advice 2 giv ya hun but alll i can say iz if ur not ready 4 marrij den try n get ur mum n daddy 2 understand ya....n hey use da education reason....datz a gooood xcuse wink n it usuallly workz...hehe xx
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Post by mina on Sun Apr 12, 2009 11:33 am

16???n 19????...bloody hell ur still babies..i dnt get y sum bengi famlys r o backwards!!!!...speak to ur parents altho dats not always easy...get sum1 t explain on ur behalf....i dnt believe any1 shud be made to get marid or do anything they dnt want to do...if ur not ready then ur not ready...studying is def a gud excuse but it depends on how seriously ur fam take it....i no a few ppl in ur situation.....fings like dis make me sooooo greatful for d understanding fam i hav.....mashallah..
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Post by OlderStrongerFaster on Sun Apr 12, 2009 11:41 am

^ same here...
my eldest sis iz 25...n stil sayin shz not ready...so i got a looooooooooong way 2 go Very Happy
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Post by mina on Sun Apr 12, 2009 11:44 am

my sis got marid a cuple years ago...im next out d girls but il keep away from marij as long as possible...maybe wen im around 25.....i like my life jus d way it is n my fam dnt wana get rid of me either...too precious...n no1 wud be gu enuf...lol!!
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Post by OlderStrongerFaster on Sun Apr 12, 2009 11:49 am

lol gud enuf??? hehe i dont reli knw u but am gessin datz truu....lol

25 wud b a lil old i fink...but am glad none of my older sisterz r marid yet...it wudnt b d same wivout dem....
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Post by mina on Sun Apr 12, 2009 11:52 am

its not d same but aslong as shes happy dats all dat matters.....every1 nows dis guys gna hav to be sumit special for my fam to approve...dnt fink any1 wud be upto der standards...esp for me!!..oh wel......
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Post by mini on Sun Apr 12, 2009 6:39 pm

If you girls get chance to get married before 20 then just do it! bengali cry

There is a proverb in Bangla: "Maiya Manush Kureetey(20) teh Buuuriii(Old)!!!" chatty
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Post by viper on Mon Apr 13, 2009 9:14 am

Naz wrote:I go thru dis lyk everyday! truss me..im feelin u bbe! every1 sayz ima get married well early..n 2 sum freshy aswell..lol sos

i dnt cre wah dey say eny more..every1z alwayz plannin my wedding..even ma bro..n all dis shit on howz hes gna b hiring carz n ma mates n cuzn hav alredy decided on colour codes!!! lol n da fing is im only turning 16 lyk next week!

ma mates gettin married next month n shes 16 lol so its givin ma mum ber ideas..
da best fing to do is to use studying or workin as a excuse! x

Isn't that illegal getting married at 16?
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Post by OlderStrongerFaster on Mon Apr 13, 2009 9:20 am

^ not accordin 2 every parent tho.....
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Post by PoisonIvy on Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:03 am

Tassy wrote:i needd sum adviceee ppl Neutral

^^
Any marriage requires long term planning. Especially with arranged marriages. Parents tend to seek early consent so it gives them plenty time in choosing the future partner.

Just coz ur single doesn't mean you're ready for marriage. I can understand your fear, the whole marriage concept is freaky. But maybe you'd like to think abt it since you're 19. Islamically it's better to marry young then later, it means you're less likely to commiting major sins.

I dnt knw what advice to give you but maybe a few of my personal experiences could help your thoughts adjust to the marriage concept of life. I remember when Iwas 19 and my family wanted to get me married off, but mentally Iwasn't prepared for a partner, I'm an ideal housewife, wifey material but mentally my mind wasn't ready for a partner. At that point I was in the same position as you thinking my life is over, that's it i'm gonna be married. But I was wrong, my family jus wanted my permssion before going out and seeking anyone for me.

At the age of 20 I turned round and thought to myself, this stuff takes time, what have I to loose. Many come and many go, we go thru an approval section, then the reject. It doesn't happen as soon as you see it or think abt it. My ideal age for marriage is 24. I'm now 23 and it has taken time in finding and choosing the ideal partner.

This stuff takes time, give it some thought, dnt be scared..remember at the end of the day you're entitled to share your views and opinions, make sure you have a say and are constantly aware of whats happening around you. It's a fun process, you're in control..make the most of it Smile
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Post by Tassy on Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:04 am

OlderStrongerFaster wrote:16??? omdaiiiiz.......n herez me finkiin 19 woz early!!! erm

[/b]16 n 19 ders no difference uno... its da sme age... wer still young... ma parent wanted meh to geh married at age of 16 buh den dey cme to der sense n goes its too young.. so nw 19 or 18... so dts moreee young isn it? to geh married? lol trus meh der typical mn [b]
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Post by Tassy on Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:08 am

PoisonIvy wrote:
Tassy wrote:i needd sum adviceee ppl Neutral

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Any marriage requires long term planning. Especially with arranged marriages. Parents tend to seek early consent so it gives them plenty time in choosing the future partner.

Just coz ur single doesn't mean you're ready for marriage. I can understand your fear, the whole marriage concept is freaky. But maybe you'd like to think abt it since you're 19. Islamically it's better to marry young then later, it means you're less likely to commiting major sins.

I dnt knw what advice to give you but maybe a few of my personal experiences could help your thoughts adjust to the marriage concept of life. I remember when Iwas 19 and my family wanted to get me married off, but mentally Iwasn't prepared for a partner, I'm an ideal housewife, wifey material but mentally my mind wasn't ready for a partner. At that point I was in the same position as you thinking my life is over, that's it i'm gonna be married. But I was wrong, my family jus wanted my permssion before going out and seeking anyone for me.

At the age of 20 I turned round and thought to myself, this stuff takes time, what have I to loose. Many come and many go, we go thru an approval section, then the reject. It doesn't happen as soon as you see it or think abt it. My ideal age for marriage is 24. I'm now 23 and it has taken time in finding and choosing the ideal partner.

This stuff takes time, give it some thought, dnt be scared..remember at the end of the day you're entitled to share your views and opinions, make sure you have a say and are constantly aware of whats happening around you. It's a fun process, you're in control..make the most of it Smile

hhmmmm i geh wt u r tryna say hun .. i understand... buh fing is i cant speak up to ma parents like about marriege stuff.. its kinda embaresing to talk bwt dis to dem if yooh knw wat i mean... plus am d eldest n der takin advantge of it... i jus cnt take it anymre...Sad
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Post by Tassy on Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:11 am

OlderStrongerFaster wrote:i reeeli dont know wot advice 2 giv ya hun but alll i can say iz if ur not ready 4 marrij den try n get ur mum n daddy 2 understand ya....n hey use da education reason....datz a gooood xcuse wink n it usuallly workz...hehe xx

Lol i always use da excuse abt education.... it dosent work trus meh .... dey goes to meh yooh can stil continue studyin afta ur marrige ... i geh stuck wen dey say dat... ma poiint is I DONT WANA GET MARRIED NOW... its toooo earliii uno... Sad am onlii 16 n nearli 17 in nxt 2 mnths Sad n der planning it out ... Sad
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Post by Tassy on Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:13 am

mini wrote:If you girls get chance to get married before 20 then just do it! bengali cry

There is a proverb in Bangla: "Maiya Manush Kureetey(20) teh Buuuriii(Old)!!!" chatty


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Post by Tassy on Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:14 am

viper wrote:
Naz wrote:I go thru dis lyk everyday! truss me..im feelin u bbe! every1 sayz ima get married well early..n 2 sum freshy aswell..lol sos

i dnt cre wah dey say eny more..every1z alwayz plannin my wedding..even ma bro..n all dis shit on howz hes gna b hiring carz n ma mates n cuzn hav alredy decided on colour codes!!! lol n da fing is im only turning 16 lyk next week!

ma mates gettin married next month n shes 16 lol so its givin ma mum ber ideas..
da best fing to do is to use studying or workin as a excuse! x

Isn't that illegal getting married at 16?

Nah is not...B4 it was 21 i fink to geh married buh nw da law change .... 16 is legal to geh married
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Post by Tassy on Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:15 am

OlderStrongerFaster wrote:lol gud enuf??? hehe i dont reli knw u but am gessin datz truu....lol

25 wud b a lil old i fink...but am glad none of my older sisterz r marid yet...it wudnt b d same wivout dem....

well ii fink arnd 22- 25 is da perfect age to geh marrried :/
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Post by Tasliima on Tue Apr 14, 2009 4:02 am



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Post by OlderStrongerFaster on Tue Apr 14, 2009 9:29 am

Tassy wrote:
OlderStrongerFaster wrote:lol gud enuf??? hehe i dont reli knw u but am gessin datz truu....lol

25 wud b a lil old i fink...but am glad none of my older sisterz r marid yet...it wudnt b d same wivout dem....

well ii fink arnd 22- 25 is da perfect age to geh marrried :/


yea i ges itz aryt...but around 22 23 beta...
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Post by adorprincess on Tue Apr 14, 2009 10:10 pm

Dnt worry tassy ...im myt be on the same boat as soon.... confused2 .....just av faith in god and he'll bring u the best in all ur taste....takecare...i missing u alot
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Post by Tassy on Fri Apr 17, 2009 4:38 am

adorprincess wrote:Dnt worry tassy ...im myt be on the same boat as soon.... confused2 .....just av faith in god and he'll bring u the best in all ur taste....takecare...i missing u alot

aaawwww Sad ii knww yoooh told meh dat in da 4n Sad hhmmmmm.... newaizzzz am missin yoooh tooo Very Happy
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