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Post by *~Moonlight~* on Thu Jan 22, 2009 12:44 pm

How old do you think is when you are leaving marriage a bit too late?

Do you think it differs between men and women? If yes, why?
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Re: How old is too old?

Post by DJay on Thu Jan 22, 2009 12:48 pm

people can marry any age.. but its good to marry young.. then you can make many babies

^ ignore that im messing..


its better to get married early cause then it settles you down if your a bloke, but end of the day age is just a number.
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Re: How old is too old?

Post by *~Moonlight~* on Thu Jan 22, 2009 12:52 pm

yeah true..

but so many people have this view if you're a woman and you're leaving it late - as in 26+ you'll never find anyone! it's too late!

In my opinion.. i think it's easier for men to find someone regardless of their age.. They don't have to worry whether they are too old to have kids, whether they need to change career etc.. because nothing changes for you guys!

And young guys who are ready to settle are very hard to come across as they are too busy having the time of their lives or too immature! Lol
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Re: How old is too old?

Post by Bingo on Fri Jan 23, 2009 10:33 am

Age is just a number, right? So, what does it matter? But, then again, it matters most to our parents. Personally, I wouldn't worry about it too much. It's peer pressure and what most folks fail to realize is, is that people are making something of themselves before they even begin to think about settling down.

Men have it just as bad as the women do, Moonie. It's not all high and sundry for us. Men need to have a good job, a good education and the money status before they even get a single glance! If that's not difficult, I wonder what is.

Enlighten us.

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Post by Tassy on Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:14 am

wt bwt marrying some one whu is younger den yooh Neutral
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Post by Baybeee_TiiTCH on Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:14 am

find that wrong...but tends to work out better...

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Post by Tassy on Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:15 am

yhh dts truu Neutral looool
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Post by Baybeee_TiiTCH on Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:17 am

i don't get how that works thought....would you ever get married to someone younger than you?

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Post by Tassy on Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:19 am

noooo nevaa lol i will feel baree weird... ill always fink der younga den meh n lyk ma lil broo Neutral dts disgustin lool
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Post by Baybeee_TiiTCH on Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:25 am

shudn't say thaaa, our prophet's (saw) first wife khadija was older than him by a mile literalli!

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Post by Baybeee_TiiTCH on Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:25 am

i meant that about the last bit you know disgusting....buh yhhh can understand

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Post by Tassy on Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:33 am

hhhmmmmmm
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Re: How old is too old?

Post by *~Moonlight~* on Sat Jan 24, 2009 12:45 pm

Bingo wrote:Age is just a number, right? So, what does it matter? But, then again, it matters most to our parents. Personally, I wouldn't worry about it too much. It's peer pressure and what most folks fail to realize is, is that people are making something of themselves before they even begin to think about settling down.

Men have it just as bad as the women do, Moonie. It's not all high and sundry for us. Men need to have a good job, a good education and the money status before they even get a single glance! If that's not difficult, I wonder what is.

Enlighten us.

Well not many people have reached that age of enlightenment where age is just a number. I'm not saying I agree with it.. I'm just highlighting it exists! When I tell people how I myself want to settle in my career and earn a few bob before I settle down and that would probably be by the time I hit 27/28 they look at me like I'm some kind of freak, saying I'm never going to find a guy by then??

Or if I tell them, how about I get married while I'm studying? Is that a problem? Again I get the "you freak" look.

And yeah men probably do have it as bad, but many women are wanting to make something of themselves too, and you don't often meet men who are willing to marry a chick who wants to continue studying whilst being married or earn a living. We have to pop out your babies, we have to know how to cook and cook well, and look after a household as well as all the family members in the household, which isn't a problem for most, and then there's that notion of parents wanting younger brides, save from sin, sunnath etc..

I still believe we have that "sell by date" label over our heads.

Anyway the issue wasn't really about how much women get it tougher.. It was merely highlighting that a man can easily settle and find a partner when they are in their 30's compared to that of a woman in her 30's.
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Post by BENGALI_QUEEN on Sat Jan 24, 2009 1:20 pm

man i wana get married im gna be 20! my clocks gna start ticking soon!
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Post by dj-khanz on Sat Jan 24, 2009 9:52 pm

best age to get married is around 19-25.. no ova or under.....
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Post by Baybeee_TiiTCH on Sun Jan 25, 2009 3:47 am

why not 26 and 27? a family friend she got married at the age of 26....

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Post by dj-khanz on Mon Jan 26, 2009 12:18 pm

yea thats when.. if people do get busy wid life.. .. wah if she jus had a job buh didnt find da right guy for herself then that takes long to find a typical guy ova age of 28????

so for best thing is gettin married at right time.. not too late.. u knw ur mr right cant be the right one u asked lol
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Post by x..[Luv]-[PwiNCesS]..x on Tue Jan 27, 2009 1:44 am

nah i dunt fink 26 iz old ..itz probz jus near ryt .... =]
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Post by *~Moonlight~* on Thu Jan 29, 2009 8:04 pm

I don't think marriage should intervene with education anyway.. What's wrong with being married while you are studying? Men should be encouraging and support their wife!
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Post by x..[Luv]-[PwiNCesS]..x on Thu Jan 29, 2009 10:22 pm

dahz tuuh much .... :0
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Post by adorprincess on Sat Jan 31, 2009 12:41 am

dah is soo ryt !!! '*~Moonlight~*' i agree wivi fink old wud b clasifyd as , ova da AGE OF 65 (ELDERLY)
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Post by Babyy_Moyna <B on Sat Jan 31, 2009 2:47 am

iitz nva tuu old tuu get married bigsmile age iiz juz a numba....
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Post by adorprincess on Sat Jan 31, 2009 2:51 am

i agree!Very Happy
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Post by Baybeee_TiiTCH on Sat Jan 31, 2009 10:42 am

....No there'z a point at which people just shouldn't get married.... if it was like how affa put it everyone would just keep gettin married non-stop! full-stop!..... Shocked Shocked

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Post by Babyy_Moyna <B on Sat Jan 31, 2009 10:50 am

wat yew Mean?... scratch

iim confused
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